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writes:Is love enough?I had been waiting to go out with this guy for ages, he was my best friend! but recently we seem to have nothing to talk about, we used to be on IM and the phone all the time talking , but recently we don't talk and when we do talk its in dissagreement!We have nothing in common. music, food, films!i know opposits are supposed to attract, but is love enough!Hes a vegatarian, i love my meat!At the moment all i can think about is getting out of this country, i am taking travel and tourism course! When we first got together i thought we wanted the same things.but he wants to have a job in the uk for a year before moving abroad! but in this financial cimate thats likely to be 5 years minimum down the line! I want to go now! He says we hav'nt been together that long. So i said to him does that mean hes not sure about me, like i am about him! and he said he didnt mean it like that!he said he want us to live together here in the uk for a while i case anything goes wrong! so i said to him sarcasticaly, "so hypotheticaly say somehow we managed to get money for a place then we lost our job and couldn't afford it anymore , what are we supposed to do, you go back to your parents and i got back to mine?" and he said yeah!i want to get away so i dont have anyone to rely on, so i have to grow up, but he doesent seem to want to!please help!should i tell him that im going abroad and he can come or stay, that i still want him, but if he dont want me, he said if i went abroad for 6 months on a summer rep job he would miss me too much! AHHHHHHHH!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni have been doing travel and tourism and i have always made it clear that i wanted to move abroad. I have been given the opportunity to have a travel rep job, no idea where, but i just hate the uk,the only thing keeping me here is him.
In november i went to disney land paris with my course fro 4 day and missed him like mad, we were on the phone to each other crying coz we missed each other.
But last week we had not seen each other for nearly a week and he didnt even care or realise. we used to see each other nearly every day now we go for ages and its not a big deal, somethings changed and i dont know what!
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