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If you stop masturbating for too long can it hurt you?

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Question - (14 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Well Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 months and I am sick of always having sex with him, sometimes if were just laying there watching a movie its all he can think about and I don't wanna be mean and then I feel bad when I say no so usually i give in..*tst tst, naught me* I know! I can't help it the way he looks at me its sooo cute. But I finally put my foot down and said lisyen I don't wanna for like a month or 2 and he was like OMG why and I said because its too much and its getting old really quick and to be quite honest it isn't fun like it used to be. So he said fine, he doesn't want to maturbate while we are on our "break" and I said well I don't mind, and then last night he said it was too much and his dick really hurt because it was so hard, so he got a hj and then he said when he came it felt like razor blades is that normal and can that happen if you just stop masturbating or having sex for too long?

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A male reader, zelgamer United States +, writes (14 January 2009):

zelgamer agony auntHe might have a UTI, Urinary Tract Infection, the only way to recover from one is to use proper treatment. If left untreated will only worsen.

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A female reader, Fee-Fee United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2009):

Fee-Fee agony auntNow the first thing that sprang into my head here was he might have been exaggerating a little to get you to break your no sex rule!

I did hear somewhere that it can get very uncomfortable for a male if they ignore a hard on for too long ... I've never heard it being quite as painful as razorblades though, especially in one so young (I am assuming he also fits in the 13-15 category?) Perhaps one of the chaps on here can clarify that point further!

If it honestly hurt him *that* much though, and he genuinely wasn't exaggerating, then I suggest you get him to make an appointment with his doctor just to be on the safe side. It is nothing the doctor won't have heard before, so there is no need for him to be embarrassed. It could be a simple infection that will clear up in a matter of days with the proper treatment, then he can go back to nagging you for sex :o)

You sound like an intelligent girl, so I hope you have been using condoms.

If you haven't, and it turns out to be an infection, I suggest you go and get yourself checked out too, purely to make sure all is 100% a-OK.

I doubt it is anything to worry about, but there is never any harm in checking it out.

Good luck!

Fee

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