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anonymous
writes: Hallo, i think u can help. I am a single guy of 19. Um so shy n introvert. Had never been in a relationship before. Well da thing is for last two weeks i ve been getting friendship texts n miss calls from an unknown number. I did never reply cause i cant deal good wid things lyk these. So , last week i got a call, it was a girls , she just laughed for a minute and cut da call. Just today i got a call, she asked me, if we could be frenz, she was smiling a lot and flirting a bit. She introduced her, asked my name got my details ,gave me her details, she talked for long.then after an hour she again called and asked me to save her number and contact her whenever i want.her voice doesn seems any of my frenz .she s 18. She said she wants to be my friend.she doesn say how she got my number. How to deal wid this , if i am interested wid her, wot shall i do? Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all. Great many thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): sounds shifty to me although I'm a sceptic, I'd be worried it was a mate pulling a mean prank. Ask around.. find out x
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reader, AuntieMx +, writes (14 January 2009):
Sounds very strange but familiar too me. I once had this problem and in the end found out it was a complete freak who has now left me alone! You could either check her out in public were there are plenty of other people (go with a friend) or just totally forget about her and ignore her calls and texts, she will eventually get bored. Do NOT give out any more personal info as you do not know who it is. Good luckMFx
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reader, Griffo +, writes (14 January 2009):
Make friends with her as she wishes. And ask to meet in person first. No use developing a relationship on a phone then when you meet her she's not what you expect or your simply not attracted to her.
face-to-face communication is best.
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reader, SoftlyCaress +, writes (14 January 2009):
well kinda hard to be interested in her if you dont really know her and be very careful as to not give out your personal information to someone you dont know there are som real weirdos out there but at the same time you could chat back and forth on the phone being careful to what you say and info you give . maybe get to know each other that way then move on to setting up a meeting in person. But again Be Very Careful...
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reader, Ask JenniHearts +, writes (14 January 2009):
how she got your number is a good question indeed. but she got it and she likes you enough to keep talking. i think that you should just keep talking to her and be friendly try and meet up some where not just as a date maybe she brings friends and you bring friends. you have to handle this carefully dont just jump into it but just have fun
hope this helps
jenni hearts
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