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writes:i recently got dumped by the love of my life he was my everything he made me feel like i was his everything he told me i was the one and stuff .. throughout our year and a half relationship i felt really close and trusted him with my life .. he knew that .... over course of our relationship i bought him stuff that had great value, i did this because i loved him and cared for him loads as u do... he bought himself a house in which i helped him renovate all the time .. no matter what he wanted i would do it .. it was love..i drove him places with his mates so he could drink have a good time .. all this was done out of the goodness of my heart ... one day his feelings just changed and i was dumped it was 4 days after his bday i bought him over 800 bucks worth stuff ..again cos he was worth it ... we dont talk or anything it sucks he told me we will remain great mates and stuff like that .. i feel really hurt and really annoyed that he could treat me like this after all i did for him .. i didnt realize that loving somone and caring would end up like this .. i saw him for the first time the other day he was drinking at a bar i was at and he was all over me flirting and carrying on .. he pecked me on the lips a few times and grabbed my hand and put it on his jeans i pulled away cos i knew it was wrong ... i just dont understand him hes just brushed me aside but yet he does that he never calls or txt me ... i called him and asked him what the go was he told me he was drunk and doesnt remember what he done but he remembers everything else of the the night he said he doesnt want to be with me and he not goin to give the relationship another go .. is he just messing with my head or is he still attracted in his weird ways
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reader, zonks  +, writes (14 January 2009):
He's prabably just guilty that he can't love you the way you love him. But he does not love you. He was honest when he said that he was drunk.. if you had not pulled back he might have gone ahead with sex and later blamed it on being drunk. Take him on his words. If he's really your good friend ask him to help you in getting over and not to confuse you. If he's a good guy he'll keep his distance. If he keeps playing he just wants you to hang on.. But Don't. Please don't.
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