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female
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writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for about three months now. We haven't had sex yet but we've fooled around and stuff. He's given me oral and i do him, every time i've given him head he has always ejaculated. So anyway the other night, we were fooling around and he went down on me, and after i went down on him, usually he's normally hard, but this time he was only like semi hard, and then when i was giving him head he just lost his erection. This has never happened to me before ( i am a little in experienced) and i was just confused so we just left it, and at first it was one of those awkward silent moments, then we just acted like nothing happened and nothing was said on the matter. Im still confused though because its never happened when we've been fooling around before and its kinda knocked my confidence a bit.Any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2009): maybe he masterbated too much that day. Don't take it personally and ask him.
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reader, sweetheart03  +, writes (14 January 2009):
Sometimes guys have moments were they are one min or can't get hard..... But don't stress it. If it happens again just ask right then and there am I doing something wrong? If he says no its him they don't know why it happens. No big deal
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reader, MommyOfOne +, writes (14 January 2009):
 This happens to guys sometimes. Girls can take it pretty hard, figuring they didn't do something right, or their boyfriend isn't turned on by them. But, when this happens to THEM, they tend to be effected by it more than the girls... Let it go. Don't take it personally. And definitely don't pester him about it. It happens sometimes.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (14 January 2009):
 You should not dwell on it, and neither should he. It happens. Occasionally, little bitty things can take away an erection for no apparent reason. Don't even mention it again and the next time, he will likely pop just fine.
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