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female
age
36-40,
*ena1
writes:hey every body.my husband is getting cold even we just get married.i talked about my situation before ,it is about sex.i don't know if it is normal to go with no sex in relationship for 2months especially if it is in the beginning.because he is my 1st man.i don't know what to do.i asked him 2 times before for sex and he turned me down ,from then i never asked him again.now if he doesn't come to me i don't go to him at all.i don't know if my pride should work in this situation.i don't understand why he changed after marriage,before he was begging me to have sex with him and i told him to wait till marriage,but now he is careless.i don't know if that because of all time he waited for me(it has been 2 years with no sex for him)or he got used to porn because i am sure he play with him self.cause no man go for long without doing any thing.i don't know what to do.may be i don't get sexy enough,may be because i don't ask him,i feel shy asking him any way.what usually women do when they wantto ask their husband for sex?i don't really know what to do,i have no experience,i don't know how to chose time.i know nothing.i feel bad when he chooses porn over me.help me plz.give me advices
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reader, PeaceKeeper  +, writes (18 February 2009):
Hi,
Thats very strange, because guys prefer sex over anything, even food (i would!). You better talk to him about this matter and tell him about your situation because their is no meaning of marriage when there is no sex. And this is one of the reasons when people have affairs. So you better start taking this matter dead serious before you go down the wrong path.
Take care!
PS: plz take a look at http://www.dearcupid.org/question/would-you-marry-a-shy-guy.html
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reader, lena1 +, writes (16 February 2009):
lena1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question i am tired of this.i don t want to touch him any more.when i find out that he was masturbating.help me plz i dont know what to do.my head wants to explose
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): just jump him and innitiate…masturbating is not better than sex…no way
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