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Valentines Day Opinionaire...

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Question - (15 February 2009) 8 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, *majayne writes:

Quick Question for Valentines Day...

I have been taking a poll on peoples opinion on valentines day and I'd really appreciate any answers I can get.

Is Valentines day to you a holiday to be embraced and celebrated, or is it strictly representative of consumerism and has the opposite effect of causing stress on a relationship rather than bring it together?

Simply is valentines day good or bad?

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A female reader, Emajayne Canada +, writes (15 February 2009):

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Emajayne agony auntThanks a lot for ur input! I agree with every single answer u all gave with regards to valentines day.

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A female reader, Ummm United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2009):

Commercial, common, not special. To be treated as any other day, unless perhaps there is some fun quirky kind of something going on in relation to this rather strange day! Who was St V anyway? Plus, i guess i'm just not the religious type!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

I agree with some of the others who posted here.

Its not just about romance, its also friendship.

I hung out with some of my really good friends today, then later another one of my friends and I went out to see a movie we've been waiting to see. After that went to get a slurpee at 711, drove around, sat at the park, talked and joked around. Afterwards he took me home and that was it. We just had fun without having to worry whether it was Valentines or not.

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A female reader, SirenaBlusera Mexico +, writes (15 February 2009):

SirenaBlusera agony auntI think that Valentine's Day should be a day to celebrate friendships, not JUST romance.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

Valentine's Day is supposed to be a good day. However, consumerism has just about killed it. It is supposed to be a day to show your respect, care, or love to that special someone. If there is no special "other" in your life at the time, show you care about someone else like your mom, sister, a teacher, etc. Any holiday about love is good.

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A female reader, molly4 Australia +, writes (15 February 2009):

molly4 agony aunti like it. its fun. i think it should be embraced.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (15 February 2009):

rcn agony auntEmbraced and celebrated. It's personal choice to take part in consumerism.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

Valentines day is neither bad or good for me. I am currently single at the moment, but I like to pamper myself during this day and spend time with my friends. But if I was in a relationship I know I would go all out just to let my significant other know how much he means to me. Planning something for Valentines day is non stressful for me whether I am single or in a relationship. I enjoy it either way...

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