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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): that's sick!! if she doesn't want to touch herself infront of a camera then she can say no. I think that you should stay of the porn sites!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): In the same way she probably tries (and fails) to convince you to do the housework? If people don't want to do something they have every right to say no and be respected.... ok maybe not regarding the housework but I'm sure you get my point! Maybe she feels used. Lets face it, if she wanted to be a porn star she could just go somewhere and get paid to be in a video. I think you should drop the subject and try and be a little bit more romantic.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): If she doesn't want to do it -she should not have to!
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reader, dingadong  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 Because, Its sick that you wouldn't just have sex with her. Now i'm 12 and even i know better. just play wih her yourself. It would be so awkward if like yours or hr parents came over to your house\flat e.g... or a child ofsome sort and saw "my wifes sex tape" lying around the parents would probably kill them selves..... did this help? well i hope it did. Toodles. xxx
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reader, 333  +, writes (15 February 2009):
I don't think you should force her. She is obviously not comfortable doing this. Don't make her do something she doesn't want to do to pleasure you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): You go first. Let her be the boss and film you initially, then delete the movie together. Then she will trust you more when it comes to her video. Give her lots of praise and offer to get rid of it if she doesn't feel comfortable with it. If she's still not into it, I think you'll just have to leave it alone...
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