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writes:Hi guys, I used to suffer from severe eczema, now its recently cleared up although I do get the occasional redness, not bad or anything, just the odd red patch around the body, never any on my face or anything. I was just wondering if most of you took off a guys clothes and noticed any eczema would you be turned off? Please answer honsetly guys :) it would really help.Thanks a lot. Reply to this Question
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reader, BabygurlVa2090  +, writes (16 February 2009):
 no i don't think its a turn off because i have it and i know where youre coming from just be confident in your own skin
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reader, TryingToHelp +, writes (15 February 2009):
I wouldn't, probably because I used to have it in possibly the worst place, around my eyes, where eye bags are.
It has cleared now, but has left the area greyish and I feel like I always have to wear lots of concealer, it still flares up occasionally. But I have a boyfriend and he understands. I'd say just try and get it into a conversation with a girl that you used to have it and then if she sees it she will know what it is. Excema can look alarming to people who don't know what it is.
hope this helps
xxx
p.s if some girl does react badly, then she's not worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): I get eczema too, annoying isn't it? But no I never found it turned anyone off though I get it on my hands. Eczema a very common thing
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): hi,it wouldnt turn me off at all. in fact a guy i was seeing suffered really bad from it and we slept together and it never once even entered my mind dont worry about.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (15 February 2009):
a little patch of redness is not going to stop a gal from taking your clothes off. we all have things we don't like about ourselves, but when it comes down to being with someone you do forget about these little things that usually make you feel unconfident.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): LOL...loved your answer Emilysanswers! And I agree! It shouldn't be a problem! We all need to be less self-conscious about our bodies! Commercialism has made us believe if we don't look like we just stepped off the cover of Sports Illustrated, we are not good enough! It has taken me years, but I am at the point that my attitude is "accept me the way I am, or move on!" It is such an empowerment!
You will find that your slight rashes are a nonissue! I promise, especially if you follow Emilysanswer!
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reader, aunty jess +, writes (15 February 2009):
 i have eczema in a small patch on my arm and i have dry skin around my nose, and it certainly hasnt turned off my past boyfriends. and as Gina said, it doesnt really matter becuase people see past those things as we love people for who they are, not becuase they dont have eczema
jess x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 February 2009):
I think if it was on your actual penis I would be a bit worried due to the fact of where you want to put it...
If it was just some random little bit of redness then I wouldn't be bothered at all as hopefully you'd be doing various things to take my mind off it at that point.
Make sure you give great foreplay and make her orgasm and then she won't remember anything other than that.
Good Luck!! xx
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