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*kshay the alone boy...
writes:hi, i am akshay, i am alone in this world. My parents are not with me they have left me alone when i was 10 years old. Now i am 18 years old. I have no problem for money because i earn (approx Rs4000 per month). I dont know why they have left me and now i dont think about them. Now i am in class 12 this year i am having board. I am not good in studies. I have no friends and no releatives. No one likes me i dont know why???? From any where i have heard that all the children of my class says that i am orphan, yes this is true i am orphan, but we have no rights to make a friend. Ok no problem i dont want any friends. I was alone and i will be allways be alone.It is not so important to make a friends. But what to do when you get a love for 1 year and suddenly the love goes for ever. Yes since last year i love a girl she is brilieant in studies she can even quilify iit jee 2009. She also love me we have very close releation with her, but now she told me that she hates me and love another boy. Since last 2 months she is ignoring me. Just want to tell you all that i cant live without her. Please tell me what to do, should i die because i have no one for whome i am alive, even though i dont know that my parents are alive or not. (but please god keep them save). In future what i will do. That girl is every thing for me if she comes again in my life my life will improve. But i know she will never come.Just want to die. Please help me...
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reader, paras +, writes (9 May 2009):
Hi akshay,remember one thing. we are on this earth for some or the other reason, nobody knows what it is but my dear if u believe in god then do ur best and god will do the rest. .Dieing is not the solution my dear, instead do somthing that makes your life worth living. there is a saying "if u dont have any support then try to be someone elses support".Do something great in life no matter whatever it takes. . ya whatever it takes. . just go on.. make your future.And about your ........GIRLFRIEND...... that to you will suerly get and that to too beautiful that she wasTry to gain knowledge and its power, and people will attract towards u. . . Have a great life my friend... GOD BLESS YOU.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): she was your first love. but trust me you will have many more. and sadly you may have many more brokenhearts. but everyone does. what doesnt kill you makes you stronger.
you say you like being alone? i doubt that. noone likes being alone, i think you feel that because your parents left you, you deserve to be alone which isnt true at all.
maybe you should try finding a penpal, someone who you can talk to and share your interests. but this girl has obv moved on from you, and you deserve better!
i hope you find some friends because noone deserves to be alone. good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): That girl is not worth your tears. she was horrible to you. you may feel like you love her because you are alone right now. There are a lot of lonely people in this world.
You are a very STRONG person to go through a hard time in your life. I think your story sounds amazing!
You should try to meet new people.. talk and be friendly.. ask people can you join them at lunch etc and get to know them. Soon you will meet the right girl
please do not think about suicide. the right person is out there for you. you just have to believe. You do not need a girl to make you happy, you have to be happy yourself first! concentrate on your studies and concentrating more and you soon will do better in exams i promise! =)
go out and meet new people and you soon will meet a nice girl.. life is very tough at times but keep remembering u are a strong person (far stronger than that nasty girl that does NOT deserve you to love her!) ..just ignore her from now on.. shes not worth a second thought
good luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Please dont do anything like that! Yes things seem tough for you right now, but suicide is far from the answer i was suicidle myself since 7 years old but due to differant circumstances, i was raped. Life is horrible i know but we have to stay strong. U sound like a nice kid, maybe u should move to Australia we are nice people here, well a majority of people any ways. Chin up and please dont do anything like that. Stay strong as it makes you the better person, that girl is a nasty biotch for saying she hates you hate is such a strong word, i dont even hate the man that raped me i just pity the fact he is such a loser.
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