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My former crush who I still like wants to date me but I'm seeing another boy!

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Question - (15 February 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *yesliketheocean writes:

Okay, so Ive known this guy for a year now. We went out but that was a long time ago. We have become really really close and we tell eachother everything and we help eachother. He means everything to me. He is like a brother to me. Well yeah, so we stopped going out and got really close- but I still liked him like that. I wanted to go out with him again, but he didn't seem to feel the same way. So recently, about a month ago now, I gave up and met another guy. The other guy really liked me so we started going out. I still liked the first guy though... Then, the first guy suddenly told me that he had really liked me for the whole time we have known each other.

My current Boyf is really quiet and shy though, and I dont like him. But i really like the other guy. My boyfriend said that I mean so much to him and he would become a ruin if I broke up with him. I can't hurt him.... I also don't want to lose him because of his older brother, I've grown quite close to his brother- who is louder and confident, and I don't want him to dislike me and be dissapointed in me... What should I do...?

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A female reader, Eyesliketheocean United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2009):

Eyesliketheocean is verified as being by the original poster of the question

By the way- I'm thirteen and in year 8 at school. So is my boyfriend and the first guy, but my boyfriends brother is 16.

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