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writes:I am so paranoid over my relationship me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now, and I am so paranoid that he will cheat on me.I have never had this feeling in previous relationships. Its not total paranoia as he has cheated on every one of his past serious girlfriend.He lives quite far away so its kinda a long distance thing, so he knows he could get away with it.Also there are tonnes of photos on Facebook taken recently of him on nights out with his last girlfriend, but whilst seeing me. He has a habbit of cheating on his current girlfriends with his exs. I don't know what to do.I thought I should add none of his previous girlfriends know they were cheated on, I am best friends with his sister and she told me. I asked him to confirm it and he did.please give me any advice or opinionsx
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): A long distance relationship with a cheater? Sounds like the perfect set up for him! Well, you know what you're getting into and exactly what to expect so when history repeats itself don't be too surprised.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (15 February 2009):
There doesn't seem to be any reason why you would be different and why he would Not cheat on you.
I really would think twice about being with this guy. You are going to be constantly scared and waiting for it to happen and that is never good.
It'll be up to him to prove his trust worthiness if he wants to, and that could include stopping hanging out with ex's and being a bit more reassuring.
I personally wouldn't be with him. I think you are setting yourself up for a fall, especially when it's long distance.
Good Luck!! xx
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