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writes:there's this guy i've known for about 4 months now whom i have a crush on.. here are some facts that just confuses me too much.1. i caught him staring at me so many times.2. he cares about my feelings. im not sure but that might be his personality.3. one of my friends told me that he heard the guy and the other friend talking about me (but not anymore)4. he was the one who talked to me first and knew my name already. 5. he was the only one who noticed me crying quietly when nobody did, even the person next to me.5. he (of course) asked me if I was ok even if I said I was fine and insisted to hear what was wrong, he worried about me a lot.6. he hugged me really tight and gave his phone and office numbers to make sure I call him whenever I was feeling down when he saw me crying again.8. he lied about getting a rose from his gf.9. he sent his gf away when he saw me passing by.10. my friends also think he likes me.I don’t think he’s a player because he’s a gentle man and doesn’t do those annoying flirty sweet talks which I appreciate.My friends say they don’t understand why they’re (gf and the guy)still going out because my friends saw them holding hands only twice and hadn’t had any progression after.. they’ve been going out for like 4 months now btw.People think they are still going out because they’ve been friends forever and are both too nice to break up with each other.And I also talked to him about his gf and the way he mentioned about her wasn’t really.. great.Give me comments please! Thank you :]
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reader, aunty jess  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 i think this guy really likes you, all the behaviours show that hes really into you and wishes he could have you, the thing with his gf, i think perhaps he would rather be with you, but hes not sure if you want him back in the same way and maybe this is why he is still with her
if you really like him back tell him ad discuss the fact of perhaps dating and see what his opinions on it are
good luck =D
jess x
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