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writes: Before you judge me I have anger management problems so I get angry very easily but I am getting help for it. Anyway me and my girlfriend (of a year) had this fight the other day. She found this flirty text on my phone that my chicky friend sent me. She get really mad at me started assuming I was cheating on her (ever though I would never do that). Then the next I knew it she screaming at me for no reason. That's I started to get annoyed with her (usually I can control my problem but she really got me going) I told her to leave me the f*ck alone. Then the water works happen, she stormed out of the home and ended up sleeping at her sister's. I haven't heard from her since and I really miss her. Any ideas?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Try not to flirt with girls on your phone firstly. Perhaps your girlfriend takes your relationship more seriously than you do, or at least you thought she did? If you want her back she is probably waiting to see what move you will make. Swallow your pride and get ready to apologise on two counts - firstly engaging in flirty chick messages and secondly for swearing at her. Tell her neither will happen again. Only say either thing if you mean it though. If you like flirting on your phone and cannot control your temper maybe you are doing her a favour by letting her go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Well, any girl would not like if they saw some flirty text on her boyfriend's phone. It's a normal reaction. And of course, she was mad. Plus your angry response didn't make the situation better. You could have tried to sit her down, talk to her calmly and assure her that nothing happened. And next time, don't say something you'll regret later. People say stupid things in a fit of anger, which they don't mean it in the first place. Call her if you miss her and appologise if you have to. Good luck!
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