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writes:Ok ill put this in point form so its not a bible to read -Im 19 and this girl is 21 and we go to school together-We've known each other for about 7 months now and we're close-For a good 5 months she flirted with me like crazy drawing hearts on my hands, always being around me etc.-I've had bad experiences with relationships because i would jump the gun when i see interest then not be sure about the girl a couple months in-So i was patient and got to know her for about 5 months and then told her how i felt and we went out once and made out in my car-Then she told me that it was wrong of her to do what she's doing and told me she was already seeing somebody which i respect she was honest-Now were back at school and she wants to be friends but she just told me that she was "crazy about me and would have done anything for me" but that we just had "bad timing"-She told me she still gets butterflies when im around her and she had an urge to kiss me but is happy with her bf so farany help would be great i really like this girl what should i do stay friends or any other advice, i still think she wants to be with me!
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reader, crosss129  +, writes (10 November 2011):
I would say to sit on your hands and wait. If she is as into you as she claims to be, then only time will tell. Dont put yourself out there too much for her...Dont make yourself the reason she bails on her bf now, because if anything ever happens, your going to be the guy who ruined something good for her... move forward with your life, but always be aware of her. If she sees that you are going forward, she may start to really think and for lack of a better word, get scared she could lose you. Being too available will make it that much easier for her to coast along deciding what she wants, at the expense of you living your own life. Then she will have to make the decision whether or not she stays in a relationship with someone who doesnt give her butterflies, or try being with someone who does. Sounds to me like you have a good shot... women are pushed by their hearts often, and its the heart that give your butterflies, not anything else. Good luck!
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (15 February 2009):
 then dont act on the thought of beying with her...play it kool for a little bit, be a good friend for awhile even though you know that she likes you back
give her alittle tim eto make up her mind between her current boyfriend and you....
gudd luck man!!!
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