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writes:hey i gave the girl who is kind of really good mate a snow patrol ticket for her to go with me she rejected it and said it was too much n she was really sorry but i work with her weekly so i dont know how to react next time we speak.. should i bring it up? next day i cn her mate and she never talked to me bout it so i dont think shes talked to anyone bout it should i have asked her about it? i realy just dont know what my next move is i know we are really good freinds so i dont expect her too give me the cold shoulder please throw some tips or suggestions at me to give me atleast an idea on how to react to rejection
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reader, anoms +, writes (15 February 2009):
 dude if you feel awkward i would make it clear that you only got the tickets because you thought shes the only friend who would go with you, you might have to cut the romace out for now and just ask her as a friend, if shes still not interested then ask somone else, dont let it go to waste you'l only feel very down about it when the tickets are useless memories, go enjoy yourself and prefebly bring a women with you, gudluk.
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reader, aunty_rach +, writes (15 February 2009):
just tell her how much of a good time you had and that she should of gone. there isn't much else you can do really.
i would of gone if someone offered me the ticket. if she had thought it was too much, she could of offered to give you some money towards it or something. that's what i would of done. she could of had a good time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): Just tell her what a great time you had, wish she could've been there...it would have been even better! Just don't be self-conscious about it. Treat it as though it was a friend who couldn't make it to an event with you. Don't feel rejected. Next time maybe you could ask her out to lunch or something...Good Luck!
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