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writes:How do you resist other girls, Been going out with my existing girlfriend for about 5 months now... And there is about 3-4 girls who are all over me when I see them and I keep getting closer to accepting one of those invitations. They know I have a girlfriend but I can't help flirt with them and then when it comes down to it I cant properly cheat because thats not me. But I know one day i'll just totally forget about my girl and accept one of these invitations. I dont want to tell them to back off though, because if I do that then it will shut off possibilities for the future because I do like a couple of them.
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reader, MyDestiny  +, writes (15 February 2009):
 yeah dont tell em to back off just stay true and faithful to your girlfriend and play it kool..
you dont wanna be labelled as a cheater!!1
just dodge those other girls that are after you and pay more attention to your girlfriend to get your mind of them
gudd luck bro!!
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reader, SJ_ninety +, writes (15 February 2009):
 Wow, you sound a lot like my ex; only he DID cheat. But if those girls aren't smart and nice enough to back off because you DO have a girlfriend, then that's their problem, not yours. Your problem is that you consend to the flirting and because you say you like a couple of these girls, you unconsciously encourage it. Considering your age, though, I wouldn't worry too much about whether or not you're going to mess up future chances with them. There are other fish in the sea (as you have already noticed) but you need to have some respect for the girl you're currently with, no matter what your age is. Speaking of the girl you currently have, if you, in fact, don't like and respect her enough to back away from these other girls, perhaps you should reconsider the relationship. Your girlfriend doesn't deserve this and by the way you're "treating" her, you don't deserve to eat the cake you already have.
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reader, The old Man? +, writes (15 February 2009):
 That's all part of being in a relationship. It seems that when you're taken, you attract more! Yet sometimes when you're single, it's like a desert! Nothing to be found.
However, at your age, I can understand that you want to keep future possibilities open. For now, don't do anything! If you should break down, and give in, you run the risk of acquiring the title of a cheater. You don't want that.
Don't be rude and tell them to back off, possibly give them the "play dumb" smile, like you don't catch on that they are hitting on you. That way, if your present relationship goes South, you have all these options awaiting you...
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009): ok first off.
stay as far as way as possible from the other girls.
if you really want to be with your girlfriend, you need to be for her. so if you stop leading other girls on itll be easyer & make your and yer girlfriend really have a down earth relastionship
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