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I need your opinion guys... is he playing with me?

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Question - (15 February 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 15 February 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Ok,so there's this guy and he is my 'friend'. About a month ago we were talking and i had the guts to tell him i like him. He told me he likes me back but i didn't believe him..i still don't. He has a reputation of been a liar and a player. We are not going out but we kiss whever our friends aren't looking.The problem is he tried to kiss my bestfriend and he actually kissed her 2 days ago.He tends to touch females innapropiately. My question is, Is there a chance that he actually likes me or he is just playing with me?

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A female reader, Ummm United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2009):

Make the effort to talk to other men.

Keep being his 'friend' in the way you define the word. He could be useful to give you advice on other men i reckon. Even ask him for that.

Don't ever do more than just friends with this guy for at least a year, preferably let several years pass before you even consider him, if he is considerable then!

Have fun with your life!

P.s. yes he is playing with you, of course!

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (15 February 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntHe's after sex with you and every other girl that shows the slightest interest. You are going to get hurt by this guy.

Trust me I have friends who do this to girls.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

you know the answer already... and you have the sense to think. He is playing you. You can ask him to stop and not do those things with other people but my view is he wont so think of you and what you want - someone who does that or do you want more respect?? dump him.

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A male reader, Tewebag United States +, writes (15 February 2009):

If he is trying to kiss your bestfriend he is also trying to kiss other girls as well, and probley doing more. He is playing you.

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A female reader, bubblygirl Canada +, writes (15 February 2009):

I know a guy like this. They LOVE the chase. Just like that guy, he liked to touch girls inappropriately. He also has more girl friends than guy friends and I later found out that he is a player. Im sorry to say, but those type are just trouble and I would say he's playing with you. I am a person who never likes to regret anything, but my only regret in life was being with this guy who lead me on for 2 years saying we would get into a relationship and played me. If I could go back, I would have run straight away and I suggest you do the same

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

your both young and it sounds like he's just playing around with whatever he can get his hands on, better to just leave it hunni!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2009):

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Forgot to to say this, he tends to be really sexual with me. Like last week, we were hanging out after school with his best friend. He left us and we started making out..he put his hand under my bra and started to touch me. He also likes to touch me down there and my butt.(he is 15 too going on 16).

Sometimes he bites me and asks me if he can.. also, he kisses my cheeks or my forhead. He is not a complete jerk all the time.

He is really confusing and one of my friends told me that he lies a lot.

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