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He always wants to make a go of it when he is drunk, but then never remembers what he said the next day!

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Question - (3 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A female United Kingdom, anonymous writes:

i've been talking to this guy now for about 3 months and firstly when i gave him my number, after months of saying no, i didn't really see anything between us other than friendship. But he told me right from the very start that he's liked me for years. so i thought theres no harm in getting to know him. He works in my local pub.

At the beginning he asked me to go out with him but i didn't really feel up to it then and said no maybe another time. Now time has went on i'm beginning to really really like him. When im in the pub he is forever coming over and talking to me and that which i really like. However when he's drunk ( and im not out with him) he's always asking me to make a go of it with him. This is mainly always on a sunday and to be honest i really really want to, so the first time it happened i said yea ok why not. And during the folowing week he never mentioned it once so i put it down to him being drunk. Then it happened the following week and i told him to ask me when he was sober and yet again he never mentioned it again. And on sunday night he swore to me that he wasnt drunk and said all them things again about how much he likes me and that i'm the girl he wants bla bla bla and i said ok then we'll make a go of it.

I actually believed he wasnt drunk and was quite excited that we were gonna go ahead with it all and the next day he texts me saying about how drunk he was and that he can hardly remember what happened. I asked him could he remember what he said to me and he said no. I was so angry and just decided to stop texting him and was thinking to myself would it be that he's just trying to get me back for turning him down in the first place? what should i do?

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

Don't bother with him, that's what you do. What use is he if he's just drunk when he says all this? That's an excuse. He knows what he said, but just isn't interested enough to take it further. Don't waste your time.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

Don't bother with him, that's what you do. What use is he if he's just drunk when he says all this? That's an excuse. He knows what he said, but just isn't interested enough to take it further. Don't waste your time.

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