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Why do I have to be the one to contact him and give him attention when I get nothing in return?

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Question - (3 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A female United Arab Emirates age 30-35, *ola29 writes:

SO i am so upset right now, I dont know whether its my fault or not. I haven't heard from my bf for the past week, from monday till now. And my bday was just the only last day Ive seen him. He was online a couple days ago and was "busy" and he didnt even send me a single "hi"- he came online last night, and i said "hey?" and no reply, he didnt even have the decency to text back a sorry or why he's busy. I dont know wats going on, i cant trust him as much, and im so mad. I really feel like breaking up with him. Why is it that i have to contact him and give him attention all the time when i dont have anything in return. I dont even know what my question is. I just need someone to talk to.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

How long have you been together and how serious are you? This is lousy behavior from his part. I agree with the former post, but only if this is not a serious relationship. If you've been together just weeks or less than 4 months or so, I say dump him unless he contacts you pretty soon and comes up with a magnificent excuse.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

I think he wants to end it and hasn't got the guts. So don't bother texting him and wait for him to contact you. If he hasn't done so in another week, forget about him and move on.

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