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Does he still have feelings for me or is he playing mind games?

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Question - (3 December 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, *zzazzin7823 writes:

Ok, i met this guy Jeremy and we hooked up 3 days later so we stayed together for a while but the problem is he broke up wit this girl Allie and he talked about how distant they where and how happy he was with me, so he went around telling everybody that he was in love with me and that i was the 1 4 him. So he took me to his grand mothers for labor day and she hated me. so he told me that he didnt care wat his family thought of me that he loved me so we got more and more distant and then there was a sleep over at his friends house and this girl that liked him was there to so she stole him phone while he was asleep and started prank calling me at 2 im the morning! Well we started talking and became friends and all she talked about was how much he loved me! And the next two weeks he blew me off and avoided me, he wounlt answer his phones and when he did he said he was busy and told me he would call back later but he never did. So started to freak out b/c i love him with all my heart. So when i saw him for the last time he woulnt kiss me and he had hikis all on his neck, when i asked him he said he got punched in the neck then he told my friends totallt deferent stories. So i got his phone when he was playing foot ball and read his messages to his ex- allie and they where fliting bad! And when he would try to make moves i would push him away. So that night he pushed me away i cept texting him then my friend brooke took the phon from me and they started fighting and got him mad and then he said he didnt want to be with me anymore! So we talked a week later and he was with Jessica! So i asked him why he broke up with me b/c i was still in love with him and he told me I acted like i didnt love him!!!So then the next week we talked he was back with Allie and he said that he still loved her so we hung up and then on halloween we went skating at a lock in til 6 AM and he pushed me so i called him names, and then we where sitting at a table across from each other and we fell asleep but when I woke up we where holding hands. So then my friends came up and started playing ith his hair talking about how soft it was triggerd flash backs from when i used to runn my fingers though his shoulder length blonde sexy flip hair. And that caused me to cry even harder so i stayed at the table with him with my head down for about 3 hourers and he though i was mad. But the problem is, when we broke up i got hid permission to date his step brother which i liked so we dated 4 about 3 hours and i dumped him cuz he was a stalker wierdo and that made him think i was going outwith (Travis) hi brother to make him jelous but i did it to try and move on. But he is confusing b/c he still gives me sings that he has feelings for me do u think he is trying to make up his mind? or is he playing mind games? Please help me!He is my life i gave my heart 2 him!

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A female reader, Carrot2000 United States +, writes (3 December 2009):

Carrot2000 agony auntYes, he is running game on all of you. He loves you. Then he loves Allie. Then he's with Jessica. Then he loves you again. If you don't want to keep getting played (because you are getting played), the only solution is for you to take yourself out of the game.

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A female reader, Miss Polly United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

Miss Polly agony auntI think you're wasting your time on this guy, clearly he doesn't know what he wants and he enjoys the attention of girls, regardless of whether he's actually their boyfriend or not.

I'd totally avoid him and move on, he's not good for you and he's just going to continue making you miserable, he's already disappointed you because it's turned out he's not the person you thought.

Concentrate on finding someone who doesn't give you so much heartache.

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