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Is my girlfriend still a virgin?

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Question - (3 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 December 2009)
A male Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Is my girlfriend still a virgin?

my girlfriend and I (she is 18, i am 20) are wondering if she is still considered a virgin if her ex boyfriend just got the head of his penis inside her. The way she explains it is he tried to penetrate her but she could not take the pain, but he got just past the tip (his head) for a about 20 seconds.

We both think and hope she is, but we need to know for sure.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

This is a technicality you're debating.

If you define virginity in physical terms then I guess the ex could argue that he got there first.

But in real terms I would not count it. I don't think she experienced having sex with someone else before she did with you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

if her vagina bleed after the incident, she isn't. but, i believe that if it's just the head of the penis which went in, she's still a virgin. because her ex didn't penetrate too deep.

anyways, just like what you have been advised by the other readers below, there is of no matter when both of you are in love.

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A male reader, DoubleM United States +, writes (3 December 2009):

DoubleM agony auntIt is really unimportant, isn't it? What is past is history which cannot be altered. Think of the future.

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A male reader, baddogbj China +, writes (3 December 2009):

baddogbj agony auntSounds to me as if she just about is :-)

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