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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2013): How can my virginal be tight again
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reader, tonystewart14  +, writes (13 June 2010):
When I was in college I met a girl from Mexico that claimed she was a virgin. We dated and had a good relationship but with no sex. One day I had it and told her I wanted something more and had to move on so I was leaving. With that she mentioned, she would lose her virginity to me, so we tried one day, the next, until the fourth time, we were able to have intercourse. After that we were very sexually active and our relationship got stronger. Until one day a friend told me another friend had told him, she was his exgirlfriend and how he regretted the break-up since it was the best sex he had ever had. They showed me pictures to prove the claim, so I confronted her and she admitted she was not a virgin. I told her how hurt I was and she replied she would do anything to keep me. Therefore I asked her how she did it to be so convincing that I was tricked in believing she was a virgin. She gave me details of what she did.
Let me tell you I have been with two virgins in the past and she was very convincing. Her methods are so real and true and now I am planning on showing people and marketing my experience.
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reader, aroxmedi  +, writes (18 January 2010):
 www.v-cream.blogspot.com (how you get back your virginity)
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reader, lily13524 +, writes (5 December 2009):
 you cant get back your virginity
do you even know what losing your virginity means?
it means you already have sex meaning like "sexual intercourse".If you already have sex you not a virgin again and you can replace your hymen but mentally you know you ain`t a virgin. And PEOPLE SHOULD NOT JUST GIVE THEIR VIRGINITY TO SOMEONE JUST SO!YOUR VIRGINITY IS ONE OF THE MOST BEAUTIFUL GIFTS HAVE GIVEN TO US.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Guys, she is here and asking for help so no need to insult her! In some cultures, it is important for a girl to be a virgin or else she will disgrace her family (eg. Most Islamic and African cultures). On that plastic surgery show, Dr. 90210 that comes on the E channel, I once saw Dr. Alter restoring re virginity of a Muslim girl who remained anonymous. Although technically she was now a virgin, ofcourse she still had to deal with the mental thoughts that she would be deceiving her future husband but considering the fact that her impending marriage was arranged by her family, I don't think she gave a ....! Google Dr. Gary Alter and send him an email. He actually replies himself after a few days (I once mailed him about implants) and he is a Specialist in both Plastic and Genito-urology. He mostly does sex change ops so if you can get him you will be in good hands! Or google "virginity plastic surgery" and lots of docs will appear.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): I strongly disagree with Diamondgirlx.
If you don't want to tell someone in the future the real story then just say you do not want to talk about it. That is fair to him and you.
But actually lying about things like this to future BFs is just selfish. It's manipulating someone into a relationship against their will.
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reader, DiamondGirlx  +, writes (4 December 2009):
 No hun you cannot get you virginity back,
some people say that after 7 years of not having sex that your hyman will grow back (still doesnt mean your a virgin though) and (seriously 7 years without sex??? noooo )
besides you can always lie if your really that desperate i know it sounds wrong but its true, just pretend u bled afterwards some girls actually do because not all girls bleed straight away once the hyman has been broken. it is harsh though so only do it if you need to.
xx
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reader, natasia +, writes (3 December 2009):
 Oh, why is everyone being so nasty to you?
Look, I don't know why you need to get it back - is it a cultural/religious thing? Is it really important that you are a virgin?
If it is not this - just that you wish you hadn't lost it - then you need to start coming to terms with what has happened. But I won't start talking about that until we know why you want it back.
Try not to worry - if it is just that you wish you could go back, there are ways to feel better about it. And really you haven't lost anything - you have gained an experience. You have just become more of a woman. The stage after that is pregnancy and childbirth, and then being a mother. And then a grandmother. Those are the stages, natural ones, of being a woman.
But explain - why do you want to be a virgin still?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): umm honey you can't! once its gone its gone.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (3 December 2009):
 You need to grow up, that's what you need. Are you serious?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): that train has left the station never to return...just do better in the future so you dont have more regrets. good luck sweetheart, mal
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 December 2009):
Sorry young lady. You can't get it back. In the future, make sure you get to know a guy first.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): why? not meaning to be bearer of bad news but you cant. besides to be honest its not even that important. in future take more thought in your sexual liasons if it bothers you so much.
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reader, k_c100 +, writes (3 December 2009):
 Very sorry but you cannot "get back" your virginity. Once it has gone, its gone forever!
You should just have been more careful when fooling around with your ex. You jumped into bed with him without thinking it through and there is no way to change what happened. Just learn from your mistakes and move on!
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