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writes:I was 13 when I dated my then boyfriend who was 16 at the time. He was a pretty boy and came from a wealthy family,so did I,meaning he was the player type. We dated for abt a week before he asked me to come over to his place. I made it clear before I got there that I was a virgin and didnt want to lose it any day soon yet he insisted we chill and talk. We kissed on the couch and he fingered me after taking my top off. I stopped him and told him I wasnt ready. He got angry and walked me to the door,then I didnt see him until 3 years later. He told me he'd changed and was infact inlove with me,I was too so we got back together. He again invited me over but this time I relented and lost my virginity to him. He never called or kept contact but now,6 months later,he wants me back. I've always had feelings of infatuation but is that enough to risk being hurt a dozen times?
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reader, Emjo  +, writes (3 December 2009):
 Honey, i dont think he's the sort of boy you want to be with. You may be 'in love' with him but really? He was going to use you for sex when you were only 13! and good for you you said no and stood your ground, and he walked off, why? because he didnt get what he wanted... but chances are if he had gotten what he wanted he would have still walked off. Your not seriously telling me you honestly beleive he's in love with you are you?
Dont do it, he'll just walk away again! x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 December 2009):
No. You're an intelligent girl. This guy used yoou when you were younger, he used you again to take your virginity, and he will use you yet again if you give him another chance. Take it from a male that he hasn't changed. Find a guy who will love you and respect you. Don't go back with this guy, or you will end up really hurt.
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