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female
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26-29,
*loveyhoo
writes:I don't know what to do. My friends either get annoyed at me easily, as apparently im annoying, and i understand that but i'm just me. or i just feel like i have no one. a coouple of months ago, i was always having sleepovers and meetin up with my mates. but now it seems like it has all changed. i have realised the true ones, but im not so sure now. i go out quite often but not how it used to be. i hardly ever go to sleepovers, i arrange them, but i never get invitied. now i just feel so lonely. should i just leave it, and see what happens , or keep trying to hold it all together? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009): True friends wouldn't call you annoying, they would value your personality and your company. I would suggest that maybe you join some outside clubs. How about a theatre group or sports club with kids that aren't just from your school?
That way you can build up a network of friends from different schools and different areas and meet up with them at the weekends. Rather than only seeing people from just your school. As for at school, try talking to other people and letting your old friends just get on with their childishness.
The only way to improve things is to take the steps yourself. Be positive about yourself and be brave enough to leave the negative people behind. You can make some new friends and enjoy yourself-don't be afraid to just get out there and try new things!
Good luck, I know just how you feel school times can be tough and everyone has been in situations similar to yourself. Take Care.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 December 2009):
I think you need to talk to one of them quietly about why they find you annoying. At your age, you're all defining your new personalities, and it can be very daunting for young women. Take the one you trust the most, and just ask her gently why they find you annoying and why you're not being invited out. In the meantime, make sure you're making new friendships with other girls (and boys, we're not all bad) just to make sure you have someone to have fun with and who can just be there.
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