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writes: Ok, so I'll be 17 in a few weeks and I'm in love with one of my teachers. This is not what I want anyone commenting on, I just thought it would be helpful because I'm not asking whether you think he likes me back or if I should tell him or not because I already know the answers to all those types of questions. I just want to know why I've always been attracted to teachers. The top 3 people I've "liked" most in my life were teachers. I don't know if this is a coincidence or not. Also, I've always had an obsession with teachers, (and most of the time it's not romanitcally) I just like to watch what they're doing and listen to their conversations and hear about their lives. (Yes I realize I'm a creep and looked upon as a creep by most people, but I can't help it.) My family gets mad at me sometimes for only talking about teachers, but that's really all my life revolves around quite honestly. My best friend also has this problem, but not as bad as me because she got it from me. I just want any possible causes for this strangeness. Thanks :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2009): Well they are specialists in their fields and thus find their subjects intriguing so if you like studying and long to be around people with indepth knowledge of other areas then of course you'll like them and want to be with them .
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYes, I'm very excited to be a teacher, most people have told me they think I was destined to become one.
And I really don't care how much money I make as long as I'm happy, which I know I will be. For me, it will always be rewarding.
To the "isn't it obvious?" person, I'm talking about teachers in general, not falling for them. Just... as people.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Good luck in your career, if you are choosing teaching - it's a stressful and demanding profession, but sometimes rewarding. Not financially though: oh no, never financially!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell I'm telling him when I graduate I've already decided which is why I asked no one to comment on that, but it's fine.
The thing is I don't not want to be around them. They're just so interesting. (I'm planning oin being a teacher as well) And when I'm on vacation, I wonder what teachers are doing. I don't even like most of them, they just fascinate me. It's pathetic I know, but thanks for your advice. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): Isn't it obvious? They care about you at school , and if you're not gettingn much attention at ohme, or you are , you get care from them at school and you start to fall for that protective overseer.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): It sounds to me as if you have a desire/need to be a teacher yourself. Have you ever considered it as a career?
You certainly would be in the company of teachers all the time if you were to!
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reader, unzola  +, writes (4 December 2009):
hi, i think you should not say anything to your teacher.i think the relationship with your teacher could get out of hand and be unprofessional for them. i think your teachers more likely to be older, so don't give ideas!!!thers also u could just have a crush on teachers and it ill wear off eventually? not exactly in love. The reason could be because your surrounded by them.Therefore respond to what u notice first.trying being in an enviroment away from teachers for a while. whats it like when u are on vacation ? i hope this helps xx
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