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writes:dear people of dear cupid,i feel i have a massive problem, but before i tell let me just say i am 15 and never had a boyfriend. my problem is that i feel that i am in love with the guy at school he is really nice most people tell me just to tell him how i feel but i am scared. i have told him how i feel before and he said he didn't know how he feels about me because he doesn't know me so he wanted to say friends. 6 months later i like him again and i don't know what to do its even got to the point when somone said we would be a good couple and i nearly burst into tears what should i do help me??p.s somtimes i feel he may be flirting with me but i think i am just looking for that small hope so as a side question is there some sort of way of finding out is he likes me without asking thanks xx
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reader, Runewyrm +, writes (3 December 2009):
 I agree with CaringGuy. Boys are just as unsure as girls when it comes to dating and love. It may be that as he's got to know you better he feels that he's ready to take the step. But the onyl way you can be sure is to ask him again. I know this will sound easy for me to say but he can only say no. Go for it and you may end up really happy with him, but don't be too surprised if he says he wants to remain friends.
P.S theres nothing wrong with never having a boyfriend.
Good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 December 2009):
The thing about young men is that they mature at a slower rate than young women. He told you before he couldn't go out with you because he was terribly unsure about how he feels. But he may have matured now, and may have got to know you more. With men, there is no other way to understand us other than to ask. I think you need some closure, whatever happens. So I think you need to ask him how he feels again, and suggest that you just go out on a date to really get to know each other. If he says yes, then you have a really great chance. If he says no, then you need to be brave and move on. But believe me, you won't know how he feels unless you ask.
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