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Am I wrong? Should I end it?

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Question - (3 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 December 2009)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

Okay well my boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months today, in the beginning it was fine, (isn't it always) and maybe 2 or 3 weeks into the relationship he asked me to do something sexual and I told him I didn't want to, well he got really mad at me and didn't talk to me. A week later he asked again and I said no, he got mad again and I tried to give him a kiss and he pushed my face away. He always gets mad if I don't want to do something like that. Now is that all guys or should I consider breaking up with him? He's also sorta clingy and tells me 24/7 "I love you" or "your so beautiful" that's nice to hear but not ALL THE TIME! and he also doesn't talk much. If he does he'll always say what do you want to talk about and that makes me mad. Am I wrong? Should I end it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009):

Uh, you're 13-15 right? I've been there done that and learned the hard wayy that these relationships are bad news. Stop this before it goes too far. There will be other boys.

Good luck & Stay a virgin.

=].

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 December 2009):

A man who tries to force you to do something when you're not ready is bad. A man who tries to do it twice is really bad. A man who does all that, and is also clingy 24/7 is a quite a danger. He's controlling, and you would be safer to dump him. Do not ever allow a man to treat you this way.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2009):

personally i think you should end it because he shouldnt get angry that u dont wanna do it

im 15, going on 16 so i know what you mean

i am currently with a boyfriend who did ask me and got a bit upset when i wouldnt do anything but i wasnt ready but he understood and left it

if ur boyfriend really cared about you, he wouldnt get angry with you. plus he could just be telling u he loves u etc 24/7 to sweeten you up, to get the sexual thing he has been asking you for.

he isnt worth it x

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