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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Wanted some help, me and my ex started our relationship really happy and we were for about a year and a half then we started arguing and got worse till we were arguing almost everyday over things that didnt even matter. She is very insecure and wanted me to see her everyday of the week every week, i felt so smothered, when i`d ask for a day off she`d say that i didnt care, when i went out with my friends the morning after as soon as i woke up i`d get questioned to see if there were girls there or not even though i would never cheat on her. I`m not saying i done nothing wrong, i was always late for things and i did blow her off a few times too do favours for my family but in the end the arguments caused us to brake up. 10 months on we`re back talking and thinking about getting back as we both love each other but we are already having small arguments its like we just cant get along which i hate because i want it too work, can it get better or is it better left as it is?
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reader, bitch  +, writes (3 December 2009):
It won't get better unless you find out why she is so insecure and she starts to get some therapy for her insecurity and possible low self esteem issues she seems to be having. You should not have to see her everyday or feel smothered. That is a sign that she is insecure with herself and she needs some help.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 December 2009):
The thing is, she obviouosly is a hurt young lady and her insecurity needs to be addressed. She was an ex before because it wasn't working out. And it doesn't sound like it's going to work out now. Make sure you're never late for her, and make sure if you have to blow her off, it's for a really good reason. But if she's still insecure, you need to sit down with her and ask her why she feels that way. And listen. Because if it continues, you'll have to end it with her and move on.
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