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Sometimes I don't understand him, and it makes me sad

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Question - (17 December 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 17 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm feeling down tonight. It had been a few days since I had talked to my boyfriend and I missed him greatly. I was finally able to talk to him again tonight, and everything was pretty good. But then I mentioned how I was working on a Christmas gift for him, and that's when everything went downhill in a way. He got mad at me and I couldn't understand why. He said he simply didn't want anything and stuff...after awhile he said he would accept my gift but he still seemed kind of upset. Then he was supposed to be doing homework and I forgot that I kept talking to him while he was doing it, and he got mad. I feel kinda bad...but I don't wanna tell him that he's being a bit mean too.

I've been with my boyfriend for close to month. He's the first guy I loved to love me back, and he's really special to me. But I hate when stuff like this happens. I just don't know what to do. Help me. ;__; I want to stay with him, but I miss how he was when we first got together. But starting a new job has given him less free time and everything...it's made him grumpy. He loves me but...I just feel sad. I don't get him sometimes and it really upsets and worries me. :(

Additional information is that I'm 15, he's 17 and it's a long distance relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009):

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Update:

He was a bit better after he finished his work last night. He was a little more himself.

But I wanna be prepared for stuff like this in the future.

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