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*edds
writes:well my boyfriend is 15yrs older than me.our relationship has been good for the most part but something is telling me that he is hiding something i.e. i never met his family or kids he has met mine i have never been to his house he claims he is in between places and is in an apartment i know this should send up red flags but he stays at my house everynight and i mean everynight we go out all the time i can call him whenever i want not to mention he has a wonderful job and he also owns 2 businesses which i know to b his we've been 2gether over a yr and i think i trust him but for the reasons i stated itz something that just isnt rite. i know he has issues tho he wont admit cause he wonders if i really love him cause of the age difference and he has been through alot in previous relationships that were messed up i know that doesnt have anything 2 do with me. please tell me what i should do should i stay and hope the trust issue is resolved or should i let it go even tho i love this man with all my heart Reply to this Question
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reader, redds +, writes (17 December 2009):
redds is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhey anonymous that would b a great answer but i dont believe he cant afford a house he owns a number of apartment buildings and row homes and he also owns a contracting business so i dont think its a matter of not having ahome cause he likes nice things but i wish i was just what u said thnks 4 the help but now can uhelp me with this
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): Ok... so he basically lives with you, doesnt appear to have a home of his own.... doesnt have any family???
Sit down with this guy and tell him your concerns... maybe he is ashamed of someone in his family, or ashamed that he cannot afford a nice fancy home???
The only way you are going to find out what is happening is by talking to him, tell him that you love him and want to him to be part of your life but you have these silly little concerns....
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