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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I am a Female and my best friend is a male. We are completely open with each other and teall each other everything! we have been living together as students for a year and a half and will do for the next two and a half years. I dont find myself physically attracted to him at all as he is like a brother to me and he has some major issues when it comes to women so hes not dating and hasnt done for a while, but I keep finding myself thinking about him. We are currently away on christmas vacation and i miss him alot! Im just really confused if im falling for him or if i love him in a platonic way like family. Our relationship is quite strange we are always togother as we are in the same lectures and we hug alot and somtimes cuddle up on the sofa and everyone asks us if something is going on. Im generally not a very open person about me feelings and neither is he so we dont have anyone else this close to us.I was just wondering if there is anyway to stop these feelings if i am falling for him? because i would never want to ruin our friendship!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI think i will wait and see what happens and if things get worse then i will tell him how i feel. (ina way that doesnt scare him). Thanks for your help!
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