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writes:Hello,Guys~~ one of my professors is always telling us not to touch g girl even though she probably is you girl friend to protect her and make sure she is clean. Telling this, he also aften do some disgusting actions...The problem is that I have kissed my gf and touched parts of her body, so each time I hear my professor saying that kind of things I feel discomfort. By the way, he is a Christian.what can i do now? Should I register his class next semester?Please help!!!
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reader, RAINORFIRE  +, writes (17 December 2009):
 make sure she is clean i agree with the professor or you could go to the sea for lobster and get crabs
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reader, Lee Adama  +, writes (17 December 2009):
 By all means, if it's a subject you want to study, register for hiss class again. Just take into account that your professor has an agenda, & that being a Christian, he's almost guaranteed to try and impose this upon you. What you need to remember is that your professor is just a human being, and as such shares all the same frailties, intellectual, moral, emotional etc that you or I have. What you are doing with your girlfriend is perfectly normal & you certainly shouldn't let someone make you feel guilty or ashamed. That being said there's nothing wrong with taking precautions. Even if STD's are not an issue there's always pregnancy to take into account.
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reader, Dr.LanceMerryweather +, writes (17 December 2009):
 What the hell has it got to do with your professor how you conduct yourself in your private life? Your private life is just that - private. If you and your girl are happy doing what you do - carry on.
It sounds like your professor has severe hangups about sex. Actually, I would report him to his superiors - for foisting his warped opinions upon others and wasting precious tuition time in the process.
Good luck.
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reader, baddogbj +, writes (17 December 2009):
 In what context is this professor telling you this? It doesn't sound like anything that would fit in to any university curriculum.
You should base your decision as to whether or not to register for his class based on the quality of his teaching of the subject matter but I would ignore him when he talks about this kind of thing.
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reader, whoopslady +, writes (17 December 2009):
 you can have a talk with your professor first .tell him directly that you don't agree with him .meantime ,you can try to understand your professor .
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reader, Frenzotic +, writes (17 December 2009):
 Hey
His thoughts and opinions are his own, as a professor though he should be more professional and keep his own belief to himself and just teach the class.
If he continues, take him to the side and tell him you find it inappropriate and personally uncomfortable of him to be talking about this. If you can't do that you really need to tell the course leader so that she/he can take action.
You really shouldn't have to debate registering classes you want to do because of him, therefore sort this issue out first and if he starts keeping his beliefs to himself and teaching the class as expected then it should be okay.
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