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female
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30-35,
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writes: Well well what do i have to say other then i really like this guy but the EX is in the way with alot of things. he talks to me alot and always tells me what to do well im kinda nervous that the guy i just started to really like will think some thing is going on. so how should i tell my ex that i dont really care what he thinks anymore
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reader, Griffo +, writes (18 December 2009):
When you broke up you obviously decided to be friends. Maybey oneday you can but after a relationship you can't it's too complicated and feeling get in the way. This is what's happening with him your EX.
You'll need to tell him once that from this moment on you will not reply. Your going out with a new boyfriend and you do not want interferance from him (your ex) ask him to please respect your decisions otherwise he could lose you as a friend forever.
Acknoledge his feeling that it will be difficult for him and that maybe someday you both can be friends again but right now it just dosent help.
Then ask him to pease respect your decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): you just need to sit him down and tell him straight that it is over for once and for all, he shouldn't be a part of your life anymore if he is an ex boyfriend...
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