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Can anyone explain my erection difficulties?

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Question - (17 December 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 18 December 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,

I am 20years old male, I have a serious issue which has started recently like 5months ago, The problem is that my penis stands up in the start such as in the foreplay but right after some time it goes down and then does not stand up. And I jerk off aswell like the sperm comes out without the standing of the penis. Other than that it functions properly like while masturbating it stands for like 10-15mins easily and even if i am not masturbating just watching porn it stands up really quickly.

Before that everything was fine, I used to have sex 3 times a night often with no problem, infact during all my life i didnt see any problem, but due to this problem as it happened 3 times in the last 5months`I am really worried about it, I feel like an impotent which i guess i am not as while masturbating it works perfectly fine. But what is going onn? Any help would be really greatful. Thanks.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009):

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Ive gone to a gp he said i am fine,

i dont have a erection problem in masturbating and during it orgasm is also perfectly fine.

but when i try to have sex,it doesnt work well. i just have a fear of the previous problem that my penis stood and then just flattered out. 2 of my female partners were stranger to me as that was the first time i met with them and the 3rd one was my gf,but before having sex with her during the foreplay it stood for atleast 3-5mins n then wen the final part came after 10more mins the penis just sat. The reason for that i think was that i masturbated 4 times in 2 days and the next day i met her and this happened.

I have got plenty of veins going over my penis, and i dont feel that horny now, as compared to 5months ago, as i had the sexual drive after every 24hrs.

and last question is during masturbation n watching porn i do rub my nipples` is it normal? or a bit of gay? but I am straight.

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A female reader, Alice Wonders Thailand +, writes (18 December 2009):

Alice Wonders agony auntYou have erection problem when you masturbate or when you have sex?

If is the first one, I cannot help :)

For the second one, maybe you just got bored of your gf. Try some erotic games, maybe some toys. Or separate for 1-2 weeks and yes, during that time, don't watch porn or masturbate ;)

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A male reader, Garm United States +, writes (18 December 2009):

Stop watching porn and don't masturbate for a few weeks. Then see...

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A female reader, LUFC United Kingdom +, writes (18 December 2009):

LUFC agony auntIf i was you, i would get yourself to the GP asap. This could be a minor thing...but also something major.

It would be in your best interests to get yourself checked out incase it is something serious.

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