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writes:I,m a 13 year old girl and my father is in the army, so he is always very busy and he is never around to help me. I am scared of sharing things with my mom. My problem is that we have just shifted to anew place and I hate this place. I don't even have many friends here and now a days I keep loosing trust and faith in myself. I feel that I will not be able to good in studies and other things. I even miss my friend a lot. And whenever my parents scold me, even if softly, I start crying. Please help me. Reply to this Question
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reader, TasteofIndia  +, writes (17 December 2009):
 Hey, sweet. My heart breaks for you. Things will get better, they will! Do you feel like you could write your Mom a note? Tell her that you need to talk, or just write out your problems? I think it will help a lot if you do open up and talk to her about what's going on in your life. Maybe she can help you get involved in some new activities and help you to focus and feel better about yourself and your studies. That's what Moms are for!
Moving around a lot sucks, but it's okay, you'll adjust. And keep in contact with your friends back home! I've moved around a lot too, and at first it was always tough, but now I have lots of different friends in lots of different places! So, my advice is to keep a journal (writing it out always made me feel better) and to open up and talk to your Mom. And, remember that time heals all wounds and eventually this will be a memory. Things will get better, sweetness!
Good luck!
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reader, RAINORFIRE +, writes (17 December 2009):
 aww 13 is sutch a crazy yr i remember being 13 life was surprisingly hard and miserable and there was no internet back then well the best advice i can give you is to hang in there life gets better it really does you will make more friends and find things to pass the time you should try talking to your mom in time maybe you can learn to confide in her atleast give her a chance. Books are always good too its easy to forget your world when you get lost in a good story. oh and theres allways dear cupid if you need advice , also i was just wondering if you have christmas in india
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reader, kleinie  +, writes (17 December 2009):
I think you should trust your mum. She's not going to hate you for missing your Dad. Being part of a family that moves around alot is hard but eventually you will learn to accept it. Your only young though which is probably why your having these feelings. You need a stable place with people that you know and trust - just give this new town a chance, you never know you might like it.
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