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female
age
30-35,
*ostbroken'n'inlove
writes:I have known this guy for about 1 1/2 years now but we'd never really talked, I mean at first he was good friends with one of my friends and they kinda liked each other. I always thought he was cute but i never really knew him. my friend talked to him alot and i would often go over to speak with her.they then drifted apart and weren't as close as they used to be.But then my other friend started becoming close with him. i could tell that she liked him and i could feel myself getting jelous but i couldnt work out why. They used to talk alot aswell and they would text eachother alot. she was contantly talking about him to me and my bestie. we asked her if she had a thing for him but of course every time she would deny it.They were friends for quite awhile after that but then They drifted apart too.Him and i started to talk then, not very much... but we would say hi and he would ask how i was and what i was doing on the weekend you know just normal stuff.After awhile i started seeing him with this other chick who was in his grade. they seemed to be dating because he would hug her lots and be very affectionate. i saw him with 3 or 4 other girls after her but im unsure exactly how many of them he was with. I have noticed that the girls he normally dates arnt exactly gawjuss so i know he doesn't go on looks which is always a good thing. :)Anyway so i go to a job interview in town and the lady was really nice she was telling me about the other juniors who would be working with me and she mentioned his name. i wasnt quite sure weather it was him she was talking about untill he turned up for work. i knew he saw me and i could tell he was going to say somthing about it to me at school the nxt day.so anyway the job interview went well and she told me i would be doing a trial on saturday. which i was really happy about because i really needed the job and i would have a chance to get to know him better too.i went to school the next day and sure enough he asks me about the interview. he told me he was working on the saturday that i would be there which made me really excited inside :P because then i would get to know him one on one instead of my friends hanging over my shoulder.so i show up for work on saturday and he is there behind the counter. he stopped talking to the customer to tell me that i could just come in. i had to wait for the girl to tell me what i would be doing for a while nd when She did she said i'd be doin the dishes first she asked *him* to help me you know just show me where things go how the dishwasher works nd stuff like that. he helped me and he was being SOOOOO nice and he would like go out of his way just to talk to me he was flirting big time. im sOOoOoOOoo comnpletely and utterly head over heals inlove with him and i can see he likes me too he was looking at me like he wanted to make out at work. I cant help it I dunno what to do.I went to the movies and I found out he had a girlfriend, I don't think she goes to our school but i am really in love with him, he seemed to be showing all of the signs of him liking me too. I need advice, I really want to be with him, I know I could make him happier than any other girl could ever in his lifetime, I just want him to love me as much as I love him .... please help
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reader, Elliiott  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 First of all, Just be careful, To me he sounds like a bit of a player.
Second," I know I could make him happier than any other girl could ever in his lifetime, I just want him to love me as much as I love him "
Maybe his current girlfriend does that for him ?
Tell him how you feel, Invite him out somewhere so you two can talk properly & alone, Then maybe you could see how he feels about you.
Remember it takes two to tango.
Keep us updated,
Hope I helped, And good luck ! xx
- Elliott.
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