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writes:You see there is this girl that I like. She always makes me feel good about myself whenever she talks to me and she is very beautiful and kind. I can never pick up the courage to ask her out for a number of reasons:1.If she says no I could really hurt myself or someone else. I think I am really obsessed with her and I don't think I can get over her(have liked her for over two and a half years).2.I am an 100% Asian and she is 100% Aussie and I don't think she'd ever fall for someone like me.3.I am really shy and nerdy(internet) and she is really extroverted and social and enjoys life.4.I am ugly and really insignificant compared to her. She is an angel in every way: kind and beautiful.I need help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI have approached her with the intention of getting to know her better etc. But whenever I see her face to face I immediately forget whatever I want to say and then I usually end up walking away very embarrased
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): youre attracted to her because shes everything youre not. opposites attract? try not to be obsessive. or just dont let anyone find out.dont ask her out. yet.i understand how youre scared.if you ask her out then your hearts out there on the tableits so raw and youd be very vulnerable. thats scary.yeah basically what that guy said..talk to her. make her laugh.ask her a backwards way maybe, if she likes you more than a friend. it could work.the bad side is that you might just be stuck in the friends zone. nothing has happened, nor will it ever.im not trying to kill your ego. but you know its possible.if she doesnt like you would you still talk to her?then again if she is still talking to youshe must care about you and will not hurt youjust do what you think is best.or wait til something happens, not the fastest way; but it usually works.goodluck! :)
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reader, gamer  +, writes (2 August 2009):
you should probaly try talk to her and make her laugh mostly everyday so she can start to like you then when you feel like she knows you better and thinks your a nice guy then ask her. write back good luck
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