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writes:this question is about family problems..0k.. i have a problem.. when i was growing up my dad had ah gurlfriend and they were together for about 7years and they have been seperated for 2 years now and i dont get along with my dad very good because i dont think what he did to his ex girlfriend was right.. over the years his ex and i have a tight relationship and when i go to spend the night over her house he gets mad so i dont tell him when im over there.. i know thats is my dad so.. ..i want to kno if i should tell him that i still talk to her or keep it a secret(its been a secret for 2 years)
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reader, Quacked  +, writes (3 August 2009):
 The secrecy surrounding your friendship with your dads ex clearly bothers you; you don't like lying to your dad. I don't know what your relationship is like with your dad but you want to tell him. If you told him do you think he could accept it, he might get mad and not understand why, but could he accept it? People don't always like the truth but they do accept it.Only you can decide this as only you know how he will react. Sorry i couldn't be more helpful.
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reader, rcn +, writes (2 August 2009):
 This is up to you. Does your dad have to know? Isn't it your choice to remain in contact? I don't see anything wrong with it. Your being in contact is about you not him, just because they're not together, doesn't mean you have to end your relationship too.
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reader, bethevans +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Right, well i think that you have a right to go round there because they were together for that long, she may have taken up the motherly place for you .. and it's your fathers fault for bieng with her that long.. he can't just expect you to watch them go .. not bieng mean, but i think u shud say this to him. i know thts what i would do . Tra xx
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