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How can I decide who to be with? My boyfriend, or my ex-girlfriend?

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Question - (2 August 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2009)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I have an ongoing problem that i really need help with.. I am a girl and have a boyfriend of 3 years. I am bisexual before i met him i was with a girl for 4 years. Before i met him, i moved far away from the girl and she was supposed to move with me but never came. we were very young and had problems etc.. but now she wants to get back with me and I don't know what to do. I am happy with the guy, but this girl has had a hold of me for years and years... how do i decide who to be with? ive tried everything and just dont know... please help.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009):

You are still very young. The truth is that you will likely not end up with either one of these people.

You and the other girl already broke up; don't back-track on that decision--you already mentioned that the relationship was troubled.

Additionally, your relationship with the boy probably isn't that strong if you are thinking about leaving him for someone else. You will need to consider if the two of you need to stay together.

Don't worry about these relationships too much for at least 5 more years.

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