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writes:Heeey Guyssies.. well ! Omg I have a big problem.. the thing is i change my mind a lot.. My ex boyfriend.. (lets call him fred) well he and i are like really good friends now i'm really comfortable around him and we talk about everything.. well.. wen we were together it was last year but we lasted a year so it was from when i was 12 and he was a lot shorter than me.. now hes a tad taller and he's changed a bit too .. i think .. possibility i may be starting to like him again. Before i was a lot less mature than i am now.. things have changed and i'm not a shy person anymore.. the one memory i have is we were sitting on a field near my house and he said 'will u kiss me' and i dont really like people asking.. i just like it to happen but back then .. i was just 12 .. and i didn't really know how to :L.. i was scared and confused and i went all red and laughed it off lol .. but now i'm different i've had more experience with boys and i feel like now that i'm more comfortable around him and we can talk more openely .. it will be a better relationship .. but the thing is .. He's kind of a player now.. he gets with alot of girls.. but he treats me differently to other girls.. he stil talks to me the same way he did 2 years ago .. wen he liked me.. but he cheats:(.. and i'm afraid he's gna do that to me if we do start going out again .. but i told my friend about this and she's like going out with his best mate so she knows what they talk about and stuff and her boyfriend reckons he never really got over me.. it hurts me to know that. cos hes such a lovely person and everything but the thing is.. i dont want to be the girlfriend.. where he has relationships on the side or even flings .. i want to be the girl tht he wants to be with and just me no-one else.. i think i can honestly say i've always had a thing for him.. and yes i broke up with him .. but it was because he started getting really clingy :/ .. and i've come to realise boys are just like that.. and i kinda like them to be clingy now.. so what should i do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell, it's 2 years on and a lot has happened, we never got together then. but i still really like him.. i think i could go as far as saying i love him. we were going to get together but he treats me the same as all the other girls now even tho he told me he liked me. i mailed him saying tell me how u reli felt u got nothing to lose now.. and he said i did like you; but i've moved on now. i've decided i'm going to stop talking to him all together because i know if i do that he will come running back because he wants me to be into him.. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOkay i will let you know, thankyouu:) x
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reader, abercrombie  +, writes (3 August 2009):
 CALL him and ask after about 10 or 15 minutes (when the topis is open) "hey just wondering but what if WE went bak out, wud you treat me like that, cheat on me and stuff" or ask your friends bf to ask 'fred' if he would cheat on you... give him a chance, watch closely, and playfully steal his phone and mayb get som numbers? or read the texts.." u shud be able to tell like that. ask some girls you know he talks to.. discreetly of course. and find out if hes still a playa, and cheater, add some of his myspace friends, ask some of his sort of kind-of guy friends, and ask his best friends. wen you know hes not. give it a 1 or 2 month break. but dnt quit until you knoooooow hes changed. and lets say one of his sort of friends says hes dating a girl named Macy-- go ask macy, make sure the facts are all there. one lie could ruin your relationship!!!! or one rumor so dont beleive thngs you see or hear check. however if hes all up on a girl you could be sneaky about it and go tap on his shoulder and say " i think you dropped somethin... your dignity... oh andddd you lost something to... ME!" then leave.. idk why i added it its just a good come back lol! love to know how things turn out! how bout responding?
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reader, abercrombie +, writes (3 August 2009):
CALL him and ask after about 10 or 15 minutes (when the topis is open) "hey just wondering but what if WE went back out, would you treat me like that, cheat on me and stuff" or ask your friends bf to ask 'fred' if he would cheat on you... give him a chance, watch closely, and playfully steal his phone and mayb get som numbers? or read the texts.." you shud be able to tell like that. ask some girls you know he talks to.. discreetly of course. and find out if hes still a playa, and cheater, add some of his myspace friends, ask some of his sort of kind-of guy friends, and ask his best friends. when you know hes not. give it a 1 or 2 month break. but dont quit until uuuu knoooooow hes changed. and lets say one of his sort of friends says hes dating a girl named Macy-- go ask macy, make sure the facts are all there. one lie could ruin your relationship!!!! or one rumor so dont beleive thngs you see or hear check. hwevere if hes all up on a girl you could be sneaky bout it and go tap on his shoulder and say " i think u dropped somethin... your dignity... oh andddd u lost something to... ME!" then leave.. idk why i added it its just a good come back lol!
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