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writes:Hey, I'm Steve I broke up with my boyfriend almost 2 months ago and I still miss him a lot, he dumped me in a very bad way, he really broke my heart with all the things he said, I'm trying my best to move forward but every day it gets harder and harder, I need advice please because this situation is bringing me down in every aspect of my life, I gave it all to him and he just left me hurt.His best friend has sent me a couple of messages asking me if I'm ok, but Ii dont really trust her, I'm pretty sure he told her to do it, I wonder if that he really cares about me, or he just wants to know if I got over him? I want to call him or send him a text or email, but I'm scared to get a very rude answer from him, he's stuck in my heart, we shared great great moments but suddenly he changed so drastically, I really dont know what to do, how can I move forward with my heart broken in pieces I really need help.Thank You.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): You have to accept that it's over and leave things be. Try not to read things into his friends asking how you are. Some people are just considerate that way.
It will be hard at first, all breakups are, but you will recover bit by bit. Try and get out, spend time with friends, family or the dog if you have one!! Maybe find a new interest that has no link to your ex. And when you can, delete his name from your phone, get rid of things in your home that remind you of him etc. We've all been there. I wish you courage in the meantime.
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