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female
age
41-50,
*ixieGwen
writes:I've been tryin to give my ex a lil space*been broken up almost a mo*.. but then I felt it was silly and decided to call him 2 days later *last wk i didnt call for 2 days and he was bothered/thought I was having sucha a blast that I couldnt call/txt*.After we broke up we agreed to hang/be friends and we hung out b4 I left for my trip. We watched a movie and ended up having sex 2x.He was still down to hang/have sex again but was worried it wouldnt turn out well.We've talked about him fixin my bike and watchin a movie.Called him last night and he mentioned he was goin out to look at hats w/ a friend. The "friend" thing bothered me..cos hes vague and when I say im goin out w/ a friend I say who it is by habit.So I thought maybe it was a date and he just didnt wanna say.I told him via txt its ok if its a date, he can tell me *i was hopin if it was he'd tell me* so then id move on completely/never have any hope.I guess mentionin that was a mistake cos he said that its none of his friends/my business who he hangs w/.I found that response rather rude or unecessary.So I told him that and made a joke bout it.I guess some people are weird/private like that.He was supposed to give me addy for a site..so i reminded him bout it cos hes forgetful. I got the link today via txt and pretended i never said anything stupid last night and mentioned i had some movies that i knew he wanted to see - see if hes still interested.No reply.So I said "unless u dont wanna hang anymore? just thought u wanted to see those movies/hang...whatevers clever"i dont like being ignored or if someones mad at me(even though he claims hes not mad). we have sucha good time hanging out..and we both enjoy it ..but he gives mixed signals.. pushes me away..and then gets bothered when i dont contact him for awhile.he complains about being broke and now hes goin out to look at hats w/ a "friend" which most likely means spending money - WTFshould i just leave him alone..? i dont get him..
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reader, EllsworthT  +, writes (10 August 2009):
He wants to be admired and adored without having to work for it. He wants someone around to have sex with when he's in the mood. He wants someone to fill his emotional and physical needs without having to reciprocate. In other words, he is a typical young man.If being his play thing turns you on, then, by all means, stay with him!
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