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writes: I'm afraid,, me and my husband has no sexual chemistry anymore.We never hug in the bad,and never make love.He never says I ;m pretty,and he never looks at me nice.He had erection problems ,no medical reasons,and the relationship slowly turned cold.I'm so scared ,that after 23 years this marriage will brake down,and I have to live, because no matter,how hard I try, I can;t get used to this.How do I know for sure,that is not because he stoped loving me?How do I know ,that I;m not just wasting my time?What do you think, can a marriage survive with no intimacy?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): well first thought when things turn cold is to try turning up the heat. Talk to him find the things he enjoys and try and do them - from just sitting curled up on the sofa to pracing around in your underwear. Talk to him and find what he likes and do them.
i find it odd that after 23 years you talk of wasting your time - you are in marathon not a sprint.
Talk to him - see if you can find why its gone - it could be something daft like he thinks you aren't interested in him since the problems.
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