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writes:Hey - I am a 45 year old male. I met this fabulous woman who is just a few years younger online. When we met both she and I were going through a bad patch in our respective relationships with other partners. Like birds of a feather flock together we got along famously online. It was cool balm on the emotional wounds each of us festered. We chatted for over two years online and we literally burnt the phone lines down. Calls were like every time either of us got time off from our work. We finally met about six months back and despite us promising each other that the first meeting would just be really understanding and getting to know each other better - it turned out to be explosive sex. We were soon a couple. We spent quality time with each other. Sex was great and we loved each others company. However our work is in different towns and though we meet often, in my honest opinion the intimacy level has come down. I did ask her why she was so distant, a month ago, after a physical union and she specifically said it had nothing with me......Since the last one week she hasn't called and when I did five days ago she said she was busy and would call back. It hasn't happened as yet and my looking at the mobile doesn't cause it to ring. Again I sent her a birthday card and called her on her birthday... she responded okay and said she has been busy with work and issues at home..... My point is she could just text or message through email to say she is okay... or even a brief call should help soothe my nerves... Something to say she is busy or isn't able to respond but nothing as yet. Do women go into such a silent mode if they find the attraction waning? I dont want to be a wuss-bag and soundy needy (tho I guess i had became something of that sort in the last few months after we physically met because i found my love for her becoming more intense)... I still care deeply for her and miss her but dont want to be a WUSS if she wants out.... I havent called or messaged her in over two weeks - Help me with suggestions Thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): Do you know if she is involved with someone else? She might be experiencing guilt.
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reader, femalespicolli  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 I think that you should definately get over this woman. Sometimes the mystery of an online relationship can be really attractive to a person. For one, you both should have broken up with your partners before talking to eachother, but that's here nor there! Maybe she is talking to others online, or got back together when her old flame. Unfortunately amigo, she is definitely not feeling it anymore. If she doesnt' return your calls and makes up lame excuses, she's just being a wuss and is trying to give you the hint without coming out with it.
Take it for what it was; great intimacy and a little romance! Now move on to another lucky lady
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