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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:so i met my husband and 9 month into our relationship i found out i was pregnant and either get married and keep the baby or get an abortion so i chose to be married. well a month before i found out i was pregnant i was cheatin on him with his brother (kiss no sexualy acts)and our relationship was very rocky and i was just bout to break up with him until i found out the news. well after i found out i distance myself from his brother cuz i was gettin married and tryin to heal mine and my husband relationship. well little over a year into our marriage i started gaining feelings for his brother again... for his brother the feelings were always there he told me he always thought bout me...well i cheated again this time i actaully had sex with him....i dunno what to do cuz im not happy with my marriage at all my husband he is jobless and doesnt really care for anything and doesnt really help me out with takin care of our child...i try talkin to him but all we do is argue... i know he loves me soo much.. im tryin to make our marriage work.. but truthly i dont love him no more theres no attraction at all... and his brother i dunno what to do....we still flirt around and things...and we may love each other...my head is in a confusion right now....i just need some advice on what i should do..i want to leave my husband but a fear of mine is being lonely...and that we have a kid together and i dont my daugther to back and forth
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 August 2009):
 You were cheating with his BROTHER? Ewww!
Grow up, leave both of them alone (God knows you shouldn't date a man who is willing to screw his brother's wife) and take care of your child. Grimm is right, you are too immature for a relationship. If you're afraid to be lonely you will settle for the wrong man time after time.
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reader, GrimmReality +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Grow up and be honest with your husband. Let the decision be his whether you stay married or not.
You are way too immature to be in a relationship, let alone a marriage with anyone. Please be honest, tell your husband, and accept the consequences for your actions, be what they may.
You cant find love in your marriage if you were looking for love outside of it. WITH HIS BROTHER NO LESS!
(Sighs)....unbelieveable
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