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writes:0k.. I am currently single but i talk to a LOT of guys they always send me dirty pictures of themself but they want me so send them a dirty picture of myself and i take some HOT pictures but i have clothes on and they want pictures with my clothes off and i dont take pictures like that.. so should i take the pictures with my clothes off or not?? Reply to this Question
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reader, Love is all you need  +, writes (4 August 2009):
 don't do it they could post it all over the internet and send it to all the people they know!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2009): Do not do it ever! Its as simple as that. If you have already decided not to do it ever, we have a very wise girl here! Keep it up!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): I just did this a year ago and i had to face the facts when i walked into school one day and everyone looked at me weird. I sent pic's to my bf who broke up with me and then sent them to our entire class and more.
How does it feel to have ur life ruined?
U don't want to find out
so don't send them please.
good luck sweetie
=].
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reader, emmy_2012 +, writes (3 August 2009):
Never. Ever heard of black male? Yea if you end up not wanting to talk to one of those guys again because either A. you get a bf or B. they start getting creepy, they will throw those pics in ur face and you cant do anything about it! Your body is your tempal of peace, dont disturb or shame the peace by throwing it around a bunch of guys phones, they show ppl those, before long EVERYBODY will know what you look like naked. I read your question and thought it was the perfect one for me to answer cuz ive done it. And i regret it because now everybody looks at me and i feel like all they see is me naked, guys will disrespect you and your body, they will think you put out and try to get some. It can be very dangerous honey. Please jus dont!! I hope you really listen to this and i hope it helps!! I didnt make it anonymous because if you need anything, jus someone to talk to whoes been there done that etc.. then dont hesitate to write me ok. No guy is worth disgracing your body and your reputation, and any guy asking you to is a pig that you dont need to talk to anymore. And another thing, id stop sending pics completely, its jus the best thing you can do!!
Well good luck in life, hope you make the right, and safe, choices! =)
-emmy
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): Do not do it. The internet can be dangerous, you can be blackmailed, or even worse. Be careful! I am 23 and have had many years of experience talking to males online. You never know who is on the other end, even if they tell you they are "so and so, 14 yr old male from florida, etc"
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): Everyone tells you this could happen or that could happen and that may work for you for a while, but if you ever feel like you might make an exception then remember this.
My best friend was dating this guy for 2 years, had his child and constantly sent him naked pictures or videos of her masturbating or doing something like that. She didn't think anything of it because they were dating. As soon as they broke up and started having all out wars between them, her now ex boyfriend started using what she sent him as a weapon against her to get what she wanted. He told her that if she didnt give in to him that he would send a video of her masturbating to all her brothers and her father. Of course she had to give in.
It's never really a safe idea even if you trust who you are sending them to.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): oh i wrote this - um 6 months ago...
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-it-fun-to-take-pictures--why.html
Kind of relevant...
Star.x.
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reader, Fairy_Lu +, writes (2 August 2009):
 I agree with all the other aunts on here this is not a good idea and i would stongly suggest that you dont take pics of yourself, you can only imagine what may happen with them. But if you ignore the advice of us on here atleast take pics that dont show your face or any recognisable features just incase they get in the wrong hands. Think the best advice really is to say no and stop talking to that kind of guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you everyone who replied... i dont plan on EVER taking any naked pictures of myself and sending them to anybod thank for your Opinion
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): NO. NO NO NO NO NO NO NO and once again NO.
what are they going to do with the pictures? apart from get themselves off - show them to their friends publish them on Stupidcowwhoshowedmenakedpicturesbecauseisaidshewashot.com
maybe give them to your dad or your grandparents or anything else. But they might not and leave them on the pc and take it in to repair and forget they are there......don't be stupid.
the answer is NO.
Star.x.
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reader, ciaran reidy  +, writes (2 August 2009):
there are three things i never do, i am 42 and these 3 rules have kept me happy and safe for many years1. i never give out photos of me naked2. i never have sex up the bum3. i never have sex without a condom
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): OK, imagine going for a job interview in five years, and having the interviewer recognize you because he saw your pic somewhere online. Anything you send to someone is out there *forever*. The hotter you are, the hotter the pic, the more likely it is that it will be shared and be found all over.
Did you hear about the girls in the 'States who were caught sexting? Because they were under-age, they were charged with creation of child porn. If you're under age, a pic of you naked is legally child porn, even if you took it yourself.
The guys who are asking you for this are serious low-lifes. Ignore them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): Don't do it. you could be blackmailed and forced to do all sorts of things against your will. DON'T DO IT.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): No, no and no! You're obviously uncomfortable with the idea, and so you should be! Once those pictures are out there you can't get them back, who knows who will be viewing them and where they'll end up. Stick to clothes on.
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reader, LallaZine +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Don't do it, it becomes depressing and you lose self worth. You might feel sexy and confident at first, but that wears off and you will probably regret it, especially if you are having doubts now. You may find that you are doing it just to please other people and you will start to feel used. You are worth more than that. Take care :-)xx
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reader, eddie34 +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Be careful with this! Next thing you know they will turn up online. I would not do it, but if you do at least do not show your face in them...
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