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writes:I have been alone for about a year and haven't even gone out. Last week, I ran into some one I have known for years and he asked me out. I had the best time talking to him--we know all the same people and it was fun having dinner and talking. I know I'm just a worrier, but this is what bothers me. I don't know if he thinks of me any more than a friend, but I feel like I can only think of him that way. There isn't anything wrong with the way he looks--he's nice looking. I don't know what it is--I just don't feel any physical attraction at all to him. I do enjoy talking to him--do you think I would have felt any kind of attraction for him on the first date if I was going to? Or do you think I'm worrying too soon? I just don't want to lead him on (that is, if he is interested in anything more serious). Reply to this Question
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reader, urbanking99  +, writes (2 August 2009):
Last week I had to come terms with the fact the woman whom I am so desperately in LOVE with has fallen in LOVE with someone else. I have had to take a gigantic step back as she starts to build a relationship with this man. This won't EVER change my LOVE for her.I have known my Friend for 20 years and only when she got divorced did I start have feelings towards her. You and your friend need to know where the relationship is going to take you, if anywhere at all. You must first and foremost be honest with him and yourself and him to be the same about your feelings and expectations.I wish you both the best in your continuing Friendship and whatever else may happen.
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