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writes:I've been in love with this guy for almost three years now. We dated for two of those three years. We broke up a year ago and I cant seem to stop loving him. He has told me that he no longer has feelings for me and that there is no chance of ever getting back together.I have tried everything I can think of to stop loving him but nothing has worked. I have stopped talking to him, I have gotten rid of everything that has to do with him, and I pray nightly for God to help me.I love him more than anything and I just want to stop so that I can move on and be happy again. I dont know what to do. Can any one help me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): why do you think of him.there are better things to think of.i too was in love with someone . my story too ended like yours.now i have grown out of it.and now you cant imagine,i have started loving micheal jackson.now i will have to forget about him !how could you love such an inhuman person who couldnt keep his gf happy how can you rely on him for love?just dump him from your heart and from your mind too.tell yourself you hate him.and as for wonders will be done.just tell your self it is over.and dont keep him in your night prayers too.life doesnt end on breaking up.be mature.never love someone by heart.coz as time passes he takes you for granted.and thats what has happened in your case.2 years is nothing of life.there are years ahead .think of those and make your self in such a position that you can marry te person of your choice.but now continue with your career.
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reader, QuirkLady +, writes (2 August 2009):
 Have you tried going out and meeting other people? Sometimes new love can replace old love. Maybe you need to get out there, make some new friends, try some new activities, flirt with some new guys. Try a new approach to life and you may find the old dropping away.
In addition, if you are mentioning him in your prayers, leave him out. Consider the Serenity Prayer instead:
"God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference."
Good luck. I hope things get better for you soon.
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