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anonymous
writes:hey there, ok so when your boyfriend doesn't orgasmduring dry sex, does that mean that he's not getting any pleasure ??? how can i make him orgasm ??thanks so much =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2009): maybe a hand job or a blow job,
idk...i was hoping that i can find an answer also.
i feel bad cause whenever my boyfriend and i r having dry sex it feels like im the only one having fun...
WELL GOOD LUCK TO THE BOTH OF US!!~
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reader, twisted +, writes (2 August 2009):
 I dont know his personal habbits, and this answer does not mean this is the real reason. That being said, there have been scientific studies that men who masturbate frequently tend to only orgasm while manually doing so. Also, if there is pornography involved, there is a chemical in his brain that almost acts as a catalyst (trigger so to say) to orgasm. DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY! This is actually common. If this is not the problem, it may be his age. Being younger can cause insecurities (like him being afraid what you would think when he orgasmed. Or it could be a fear of pregnancy that preoccupies him during sex. There are many reasons. Some of them can be addressed, some cant. Try some different things, more foreplay is good, maybe try asking what he likes, try puting any fears he has to rest. The only thing you shouldn't do is blame yourself. Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2009): You are only young, so I guess thats not a bad thing that you are not actually having sex just yet. Its not a bad thing that your boyfriend doesnt orgasm during dry sex, alot of men would not. If you are enjoying intimacy without having sex, then it doesnt matter whether or not he orgasms. I am sure it is pleasurable for him, but dont feel the need to rush into sex just to please him. Enjoy being young and take your time, you will have plenty of time to worry about things like that when your older. Good luck :)
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reader, joe26  +, writes (2 August 2009):
 more foreplay before you engage in sex will work, or ask him how does he like to be touched, what most turns him on?? hope it helps.
cheers
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